I don't understand why!
We welcomed our first child about six months ago.
I was ecstatic to be a father.
My wife decided to take some time off work, although it’s been more than six months.
I don’t know if she is afraid to return to work or if she is afraid to leave our daughter alone.
I have tried to encourage her to return to work, even offering to make arrangements with my job to work nights.
Our parents have offered to watch her while we are working, and we have also discussed hiring a nanny.
I don’t know what to do anymore.
She talks about wanting to go back to work, but she still hasn’t made any effort to return.
Please offer me some guidance! Thanks!
Speaking as a mother, if your wife is hesitant about returning to work, then I think she needs to consider working from home. I don’t believe in a woman not holding up her end of the bargain. I can understand as a woman not feeling confident enough to leave your newborn with anyone. Although, being a stay at home mother doesn’t limit you to simply taking care of the house and child. This is 2014, and there are many mother’s working from home with children.