Sex with a widow
I recently started dating a widow.
The intellectual, emotional and physical chemistry are outstanding however, I’m having a tough time maintaining an erection.
I can’t seem to get the thought of her husband out of my head.
She had a great marriage before he was killed tragically and I know she still loves and misses him
I understand your situation. You want her to be happy with you more than as she was with her husband. But, you can't deny the fact, that she has gone through such a painful tragedy of losing her loving husband. I suggest you not to maker her feel that she needs to forget her husband but simply try to make her happy. as far as the erection problem is concerned, you need to visit a sex therapist who can guide you better.