My husband worked every holiday last year.
I was so upset.
I told him this year I wanted him to take off, so we can spend the holidays together.
This Saturday is our anniversary and he is off.
Today he told me that he has to work.
Am I being unreasonable to be so angry? Please talk me off the ledge!
I think you need to be positive. Maybe he is in trouble or going through some serious stuff officially. I understand that it is extremely important for a person to maintain a work-life balance, but at times, people just can't handle it. you should ask him what he is going through. Also, tell him that you want to spend some quality time with him and mutually fix a date to celebrate your anniversary. Marriage is something that is based entirely on understanding, love and truthfullness. You will get many more anniversaries to celebrate but arguement can make your marriage worse. Try to help hm and sort out things happily and clamly.