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Moving to my fiance's country after marriage.. is it worth it?

After my long search and jumps from one singles tour to another, I finally found my one and only.
Thanks to A Foreign Affair, I was able to find the love of my life, Pui.
We will be getting married this coming March.
Yup.
Just 2 more months! I’ve been thinking of moving to Thailand few months after marriage; when I find a job and house for us to stay in.
In the meantime we will be wed here in California and handle the business more before then.
There are many reasons why I want to move and have my family in Thailand.
I want my kids to grow up in an environment where they would learn how to appreciate family, understand that family is someone you can always come home to.
The kids these days have been growing thinking that once they become independent, they don’t have to visit their parents anymore.
Although, not everyone is like that but a huge portion is.
I just think, the culture and practices observed by the Thai fits much better with what kind of life I want to have for my future kids.
My only question is… do you guys think it’s worth it? When I also consider the fact that I have a successful business here and a house where I can start a family in… I end up feeling that it’s best to stay.
What do you guys think?

1 Answers

Katherine-P_ Answered:

Hey, I would like to say that you're thinking of too far. You must enjoy your courtship period, your wedding and honeymoon. Although i totally understand that man is the responsible person of the family and has to plan the future, but it doesn't mean that you ruin your present while planning the future. Also, I would like to suggest that you should ask your fiance about the same. Because marriage is something that needs mutual understanding, whether it is about taking a decision or planning a holiday. So, you must ask your fiance and then decide accordingly.

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