Is this abuse or am I just sensitive?
I've been married for 6 years.
I have two boys 24 and 20.
My husband has a son 10.
I'm 43 and he's 40.
I go through weekly negativity and it's wearing on me.
We have been through many many hard times, but to make a long story short, my husband says extremely cruel things to me, calls me names, tell me to shut up, says we are a fake family, and many other hurtful things.
Then the next day acts like he's done nothing wrong, says he was just joking, apologizes, and says he wont do it again.
But then does it again when I disagree or argue with him.
I am very confident or was.
I have a great job, active in my gym, very well rounded.
I consider myself old fashioned in many ways with the way I feel men should treat ladies.
Is this considered abuse or am I just sensitive as my husband says.