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how do i stop a spouse trying to control me by threating to leave in normal upsets.

how do i stop a spouse trying to control me by threating to leave in normal upsets.
she has no intention of leaving she just does this to traumatise and control me into doing whatever she wants.
its very abusive and traumatic especially with kids involved.
how to i get her to come to counselling and cooperate with a budgetand share her income as she earns 25000 a year and things its for herself when we have debts and expensesand i work 3 jobs trying to keep up with supportingthe family which includes 30000 debts from helping her sister that is on my visa card so if we break up i'm liable to pay that.
I feel that whilei'm with her we will never getout of debt or ahead financially.
it doesnt seem a concern to her and shenever cooperates

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Ted1234 Answered:

In your situation, clear communication about your joint and individual finances seems to be a good solution. Discuss with her the current situation and how you are trying your best to ease out the burden. It should set a good ground for a healthy jumpstart to your relationship.

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