Thinking of buying my gf abroad jewelry, is it too much?
I’m currently in a long distance relationship with a woman from the Philippines.
Through a romance tour, I was able to meet her in person.
We’ve been together for eight months now and I was thinking if it would be the right time to send her something special.
I’m a man with expensive taste and of course, I want nothing but the best for my lady.
The number one gift I have in mind is jewelry, but I’m wondering if this idea is too much? My friends suggest that I should send her something a little less expensive first but I can’t deny that a gorgeous woman deserves something equally beautiful.
A few options I’m seriously considering are couple rings, a necklace with her birthstone as a pendant, and a bracelet.
Her favorite flowers are roses which I’m also planning to send along with the jewelry, if I do decide to push through with the idea.
What do you guys think? Should I buy jewelry as my first gift to her or is it a bit too much? If I do decide to buy, which one should I give to her? I wasn’t planning to make this into a big of a deal but her birthday is coming up and I’m sort of panicking with what to get her.
Tips and suggestions please! I really need some help with this!
ok, you think like i thought once. so i would like to share my experience so you can adjust your thinking. i bought an expensive jewel when im on a trip abroad, thinking that i'll gift this to my girlfriend and i did . i learnt she felt it special just because i said it special. i couldnt get a feel, like what i thought in my mind. I couldnt really impress her much with my gift. it is better you try to find what is special for her and gift it to her. suggest or tips - bring someone who see treat special to her.may be her mother, orphan childs, grand father .... , singer , musician ...and ...school friends - maybe take her for a drive, trip, suprise her with a celebration there - caution plan properly :) it should not spoil her interest.
I think a necklace with her birthstone as a pendant will be a great gift. It is thoughtful yet it isn't too crazy if your relationship is fairly new. But like your friends suggested don't go for something that is too expensive. Choose a silver or a white metal chain which doesn't cost you too much. Your girlfriend also might get too overwhelmed if you gift her something too expensive this soon in the relationship.