Legally do I have any options?
My wife, who is currently living with me is actually dating and planning on moving in with a Navy soldier, who is in the middle of a divorce.
We are not legally separated or have we started any divorce proceedings.
We have been married for 23 years and I thought this was another bump in the road that we would get over.
Now she is sleeping with him but wants to stay here with the kids until he can find a bigger place so she can take the babies with her.
Marriage is not an individual entity, and it is a relationship that involves two persons. If your wife does not want to stay in this marriage, then what options do you have. You can try talking to her, but if she has already made up her mind, then that's of no use. I cannot advise you on legal options. You will find it all out on your own. The only piece of advice I have for you is to try and have an honest conversation with your wife. Discuss everything that concerns you. I hope you will get the solution you are searching. Good Luck!