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Why is it an issue now?

My husband and I have been married for 12 years.
The other night he turned me down for sex after he had been pursuing me all evening.
He said the reason was because he was aware that I had used the restroom some hours before and wanted me to shower first.
I know bathroom stuff can be sort of awkward but i swear that this time he's referring to was not bad at all.
I am a very clean person and shower everyday because I am sensitive to smells and hygiene.
I'm so confused  and maybe  hurt because I feel that his comment was completly out of character for him and also because this has NEVER been an issue before.
My question is why now? Am i being too sensitive? Does it mean something else?

1 Answers

Ted1234 Answered:

Well yes it can be hurtful, I do understand. But maybe it's just the he likes you smelling good after shower and gets turned on by that. Maybe it's not a big deal. I know it hurts when your partner tells you to shower for sex, but maybe it's not about hygiene afterall.

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