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Husband is addicted to porn!

My husband is addicted to porn and its making me feel really insecure, but he just laughs about it and refuses to admit that hes got a problem with it. He is always watching it and at first he said it was on his screen because there are sites where porn pop ups come on automatically. He is now altogether refusing to talk about it. What can I do?

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green0john said on
I don’t think porn is a problem. Adultery is a problem. Not porn. Just try to keep him busier, what I mean is plan a 2 week trip to a remote hill station, (don’t carry your laptops, there). Or just go out for a swim on the beach more often, join a meditation class etc. Just do something together that soothes the senses rather than stimulating it. Eliminate NOISE from your life!
veronica_44 said on
give him a good thrashing the next time you catch him watching that crap
faye said on
What's wrong with porn. You love it. He loves it. I love it. We all love it. Go porn. Risk everything!!! :)
Jeff said on
He just might want more intimacy and yes, SEX from you his wife, but, either you are not avilable for him (meaning you feel that there is not enough love in your relationship, so you feel reserved or turned off) or perhaps you don't wish to for some reason. But one of the problems here is he may want to make LOVE to you to show you one way that he loves you. If you do not wish to make love to him when he has this desire then he will find something or someone else to satisfy his need. I say his need, but it is not a need of SEX until his wife does not want to make LOVE, after a guy experiences the rejection from his wife then he just would like sex. If he has only resorted to porn it is still early enough, soon this may not be enough and he may want an affair with another woman to satisfy his need. If this happens he may choose her over you, so if you want neither of these things to happen, you need to correct the problem. Possibly make love more often and/or read or listen to John Gray's audio book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" this book explains why women don't want sex much and so much more. Mort's Marriage Fitness is great, but I would also listen to John Gray as he knows relationship problems too, and he offers help for your marriage, That BOTH of you need to read or listen to depending of course on the book format. I hope I had given some insight.
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