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Is it true that after marriage love ends and married couples seek other relationships?

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HotDate said on
It is true that often after marriage love life changes and main reason is because people take their partners for granted and everyday life kills romantic. That is statistic. You may keep your love life hot even after marriage as long as you pay attention on small gestures of attention, kiss with passion and share a bed :)
LANE64 said on
Many times people joke about how different married life is than what they’d imagined, but stories about the love affair being over are, in most cases, just exaggerations. The truth is that what we’ve grown to expect from romance is based largely on fairy tales and Hollywood, neither of which gives us a trustworthy account of what it means to live happily ever after. The reality of marriage is that there’s no such thing as happy forever. Each day will bring with it new challenges and opportunities. To be successful in marriage, a couple must learn how to face life as a team.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

That is fine .But I want a man that loves you. Even if you have a chronic condition. Believe me, I know happiness dont last forever. I always thought when I fell in Love that we would go old together. Just a little romance should never leave a marriage. The little taps on the lips dont work for me. Im not dead in my relationship. I do try. He signed off a long time ago. I saw a psycologist. He told me my marriage is over. There you go. Im stuck. Dont have no place to go.
Honorable said on
It's all individual as it's written above. A man needs to know he is your number one and as long as you asure him in his perficiency, he shall be all yours. A woman needs to be loved, taken care for, hugged, kissed, noticed, understood.. most of all to be treated like a lady :) At the moment you take her as granted you lose her.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

Thank you on thr marriage answer. I miss that. Xena69
lifewanderer said on
It's only true if the married couple does not want to put in the effort required to make the relationship work and find it easier to partake in other relationships instead. Often, marriages that do not start out with both parties loving each other from the beginning can also lead to such situations. Examples are arranged or forced marriages or marriage for mutual benefit in terms of finance, social standing or citizenship.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

Narcissist personality he has. I noticed this late in life. He thinks its me. Its not. I wrote him a letter and said I was tired of being a room mate. And what I needed in the relationship. Never got a answer on that. But cant put up with all the lies . He makes me feel so insecure. So many times. . I need a reply on this marriage pkease. Zena69
yosemitefaerie said on
This isn't true at all! In fact, if the couple is in love and committed to each other, then it can only deepen. Granted, there will be some obstacles that might seem like really huge hurdles, and they may come in wave after wave never-ending. But if both of you stay committed to each other, then there would be no reason to seek other relationships.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

Not if your husband is cheating. Zena69
FreshDate said on
It is a fact, yes, when partners start taking each other for granted love life is over. No one is trying to please the other, to make him/her feel good. Man's hunting instinct is not teased and his wife is not attractive for him any more.. It is not necesary to happen with your love life also, just choose your partner each day :)
Margoz said on
I disagree also. The love life in a marriage is as passionate as it was in the relationship before the marriage. The spouses need to keep the passion alive, otherwise it is possible any of the partners to seek for outer relationship.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

Your all wrong about a marriage. When the husband lies about his affair while he is married. But I aready knew about it from a sorce.. The wife lost trust in this marriage. I never could let this go.  So with what people think about marriage you will have infiltelity. Lied too. . I just hope your marriage does not have the pain that Ive been through. Its not all roses. The older I get I realized its going to get worse. Here is a story. My husband was drinking one weekend he decides he is going to stay up all night. I heard him go down our basement. It woke me up because I could hear his voice. This was 430am in the morning. I went downstairs and asked him who he was talking to? I knew he was talking to aporn star from fcn free chat now. If you wanna go private on this site you have to Pay. Well, he did and got her phone number. He dont care how that makes me feel. I HATE  Porn. Its cheating on your wife. Its mental abuse what it does to the wife. I  so tired of hearing. All men look at Porn. Its Gross. Feel bad for the newleweds that have to go through this. Itwouldnt be that bad if he didnt get her phone number. So my marriage has to be fixed. He has to realized what it does to me. When I asked him he lied to me.. zena69
Lee1979 said on
We are in a 49 year old marriage and still are really into each other, and approach sex with the same intensity as when we were younger. We have always done a lot of things together and kept our selves fit and healthy and certainly controlled our weight. I guess the most important thing is we were good friends before we married. Of course we have had bad patches but our friendship and willingness to talk about issues in a civilised manner has helped us through.

Xena69 said on Feb 25

Thats great you have a good marriage. Ive been married for 30 yrs. We were friends back then. Something breaks in a marriage your better half cheats on you. Till this day he still refuses to tell the truth. So I lost trust in him. That puts a wrench in your marriage. I guess he will take this to his grave.  We are separated now. I dont even want him back because hes a constant lier. It so Sad. Xena69
Xena69 said on
Some girls have different flavor of music. I hate heavy metal. Even in my younger years also. It sounds like you dont know your girlfriend very much. I dont know how long you been with her? With a relationship  you learn  alot from your boyfriend or girlfriend. Mine knew that I liked Rock. When we were dating.  Fixthis69
tawnee said on
I guess when both parties take each other for granted, then love is diminished. Always treat each other the same way as if you were still in courting stage and everything will be fine.
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