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Love, relationships and even marriages - why are they all so complicated?

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SunFlower said on
It is what you name it to be :) If you say it's complicated, it really is :) Please take some time to build a healthy connection with yourself, to embrase your being and believe in yourself, learn how to love yourself first and pimp up your self respect and appearence. Next time you start a relationship it shall be on a whole different level - deep, respectful, caring :)
SUTTON32 said on
Love and relationships are complicated because they involve human beings going through life, and life is itself complicated without adding another person into the mix. When you involve yourself with someone romantically, they open up to you and let down their guard. In return, they hope that you will not hurt them, at least not intentionally. We all grow up with different expectations about love and marriage, and we bring those into our partnerships with others. Most times, we are disappointed because the reality very rarely matches up with those expectations. Try relaxing your ideal of what it means to live happily ever after.
Honorable said on
Relationships with others reflect the relationship you have with youself being. When you love and respect yourself, you are loved and respected in your relationships. When your self esteem is low and you feel insecure your relationshims may equal the status "it's complicated'. Reconnect with your higher self and believe you are a worthy person and all complication relationships shall either get fixed or fall apart.
lifewanderer said on
I believe that relationships appear to be complicated because people often have unrealistic expectations of it that of course cannot be fulfilled in real life. We choose to ignore that relationships are ever changing and require our constant efforts, even though we can grow to be comfortable with them. We have to stop thinking of fairytales and fantasies when thinking of marriages.
yosemitefaerie said on
Relationships are not 2 dimensional objects that appear simple, and neither should they be viewed as inanimate objects. In fact, relationships are dynamic and evolving all the time are dependent on external factors as well as how the couple interacts with each other. If you're feeling stressed about relationships being complicated, then perhaps you've been having the wrong view of what they're supposed to be.
HotSpring said on
Relate to your being with love and respect and your attitude shall reflect in all your realationships. You deside who you are and how to be treated by people, they just read the signs you put on your forehead, dear :)
so_diana said on
Relationships are just complicated - no two people will have the same kind of relationship. We all are different.The first rule is never expect too much from the other person (or at least have realistic expectations). Unmet expectations often lead to bitterness in your relationship and only make things worse.  While, marriage is all about commitment that has to be equal from both partners. Know when is the time to quit. Love, relationships and marriages are all about hard work - it takes a lot of love, trust and respect to make things last a lifetime - they can get complicated. 
summerBreeze said on
If it was easy it wouldn't be interesting :)) Complication is a state of life. If you make it easy, I'm pretty sure you shall lost interest in it. No need to believe me, try it for yourself.
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