SUTTON32 said on
Solving marriage problems can be easy when you and your partner have a good communication pattern already established. Being prepared to hear negative feedback about something you did that your partner didn’t appreciate is only possible when both spouses don’t react defensively. When a wife tells a husband that she didn’t like what he said to her, she tells him first how it made her feel. He can choose to focus on her feelings and apologize for making her feel bad, or he can brush off her feelings and say his comments weren’t offensive. The first option makes problem solving easier.
yosemitefaerie said on
Try to be patient and lessen the times that your voice is raised at each other. Kiss and hug each other every day, it's a good way to keep the bond strong between the both of you, but you have to do it will all your heart and sincerity! Make your spouse a priority, he is your team mate and must be considered in all the decisions you make and actions that you take.
lifewanderer said on
The genuine desire to solve an issue and empathising with the other person can help married couples take the first step in solving marriage problems. The issues may be internal or external, but it's important to be a dedicated team mate to each other, and support each at and stand up for each other in their times of need at all times.
summerBreeze said on
The easiest ways of solving a marriage problem involve both partners working together on the issue :) Teamwork, cooperation, open conversations with strong empathy between each other, honesty, trust, respect. I think it describes pretty well what's needed to fix a marriage problem the easy way.The hard way is to try fixing it by yourself without searching for your partner's support which is not recommended.
joyFULLspirit said on