Most people seek marriage counseling referrals through know personally, though, there are many other sources to look to. Start by asking your primary care physician or other doctor if they know a good marriage counselor. You can also look through the therapy providers that are covered by your insurance carrier. Ask your preacher or other clergy member for a recommendation, or contact the American Psychological Association for a few names. The cost will vary, so be sure to ask for a rate schedule when making your first appointment.