SHAW54 said on
It would be inadvisable to merely survive an unhealthy marriage. Toxic relationships erode our self-love and our ability to give to the world, so it’s important to detoxify the marriage first. Healthy relationships are based on mutual trust and respect as well as love, but in order to work long-term, a marriage must include good communication channels and teamwork. If any of these components is missing, staying in the marriage will be merely an act of survival and not the beautiful partnership it should be. To find the solutions you’re seeking, work on getting yourself healthy first and then address the toxic relationship.