Stable life is boring life, are you sure you want this :)) Better face somei ssues, deal with them the best way you can and enjoy your real life as stable life is fake. people pretend to have stable lives in society as that's what is expected and reality stays hidden behind a society mask.. you sure you need this?
The honest truth is that you cannot avoid marriage problems. It helps to not see issues as problems at all, but rather, daily operation matters that must be tended to. This gives the view that the issues are a routine task that must be done for the smooth running of the marriage, instead of being seen as unwanted obstacles in the marriage. If you're looking for stability in a marriage, then perhaps you can seel out a counsellor to address your concerns.
If you want to avoid all marriage problems, then don't get married. That's the only solution I can think of. Even then, you might have problems arising from a lack of marriage. For example, your relatives might keep badgering you on about when you're getting married and so on. But if you already are married, suck it up and accept the problems big or small, but make sure to do your best to resolve them as well.
Most relationships experience ups and downs because we are all human, and we each bring our own unique set of problems to any relationship. That said, you can avoid the bigger problems in marriage by following some good advice: · Trust and respect your partner, and expect the same in return · Communicate how you feel without attacking or blaming, and expect that they love you enough to care · Make big decisions together and consult one another on anything important · Do whatever you promise to do, and don’t do anything you say you won’t do