SUMMERS said on
If you want to solve small problems before they grow large and threaten your marriage, the best way to improve relations is to master strong communication skills. This way you and your partner can better understand each other. It will include your spouse, how you feel about your relationship by using “I statements” and active listening, and treating your partner’s feelings with respect. If you tend to argue when discussing problems, it’s wise to enlist the help of a qualified marriage counselor to help you work through the issues without launching into blaming or other negative communication patterns.