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What are the signs after separation that reveals my marriage is worth saving?

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DiegoM said on
Separation can give both parties time to think and to decide whether their relationship is worth saving. It can help a couple to realise that they miss each other and would rather be together even if it means trying to sort out their differences.  They may also realise that it is not so great to be single again, and in fact can be quite lonely. It may just give them space to restore and rebuild themselves, to get the strength and perseverance they need to tackle problems again.
manofhouse said on
Some signs to look out for:
1. You are ready to forgive your spouse and vice versa
2. You want to make things right with him or her.
3. You found a solution to the problem both of you have had.
4. You realize all the good qualities of your spouse that made you happy and vice versa
5. Your spouse and you are communicating more often and both of you want to meet up again
6. You feel love and that spark of passion once more.
beautifullife said on
Separation can either prompt a couple to confirm their path for divorce, or remind them of how wonderful the other couple is. Perhaps one day when messaging your spouse, you realise how much you love him or her still. If you know the phrase 'Absense makes the heart grows fonder, then somehow separation might make sense to you.
SUMMERS said on
You can evaluate how effective your trial separation was by having a follow-up discussion.  It’s important for both partners to be honest about their interest in reinstating the relationship.  They should have frank conversations about what it will take to make it work.  In some cases, couples may be uncertain what will have to change to fix the relationship, so it can be helpful to have a mediator.  If the problems that caused the separation have been dealt with, or if the couple agrees they can work out their problems, then the marriage would be worth saving.
LANE64 said on
So you have been separated for some time and now you are wondering whether it is worth getting back together with your spouse again? This is where you need to take a very long, hard, honest and truthful look deep into your own heart. Do you still love your spouse? Can you live without him or her? Do you feel somehow more free and happy since you are apart? If you return will it be merely from a sense of duty and obligation?  How does your spouse feel and do they want to give your marriage another chance? As you think through all these questions it would be good to get some help from an objective person like a trusted friend or counselor who can help you sort through your emotions and reach a place of clarity as to what you need to do.
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