Perhaps some (or many) women are looking for men to flirt with, and perhaps they think that this is all they are worth. However, deep down inside, every woman is looking for a man who will treat her with respect and dignity, gentleness and affection. Unfortunately the sexual aspect of attraction is often so much in the spotlight, that the deeper aspects of character and integrity go unnoticed by many. Those who do not wish to settle for the superficial can seek and find a better way – a way of relating in a mature and fulfilling way, rather than flirting.
Of course women like flirting and are looking for men to flirt with, but it is helpful to know how to interpret their signs and signals. Usually when a woman likes a man, she pays him more attention – much more attention than she pays to other male friends. You may see her mirroring his body position or laughing harder at his jokes. Oftentimes, women like to flirt with a man they like by sparring. That is, competing with him at something trivial, or friendly banter that involves taking issue with her sparring partner on any topic that she thinks might engage him.