Everyone gives congratulations to the newly-weds but so few people give advice, and that’s what they really need. Tell them to ask for help when they need it and not to see problems as failures. Tell them to keep talking to each other, no matter what. Spending quality time together is so important and can be shoved to one side when they get busy. A really good idea is to get them to write down what they love about each other and store the papers somewhere safe. Then they can b taken out to red over when things seem hard and the relationship is going through a rocky patch.