It is impossible to resolve all conflicts in a relationship. Some of the most insidious issues in a relationship can linger indefinitely. You can, however, choose how you deal with conflict. Can you “let go” of control in some conflicts? Are there areas of disagreement that need to be explored and resolved at all costs? Are you willing to compromise on some things in order to help you and your partner move beyond some of the more nagging conflicts? At the end of the day, we do not resolve all conflicts, but we learn how to manage them.