The following books have been receiving really good reviews lately. I hope that they can help you too: 1. The Five Love Languages: The secret to love that lasts by Gary Chapman 2. Love is a Flame: Stories of what happens when love is rekindled by James Stuart Bell 3. Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the erotic and the domestic by Esther Perel
There are many excellent marriage help books on the market and when you start looking online or at your local bookstore you are sure to find something helpful. You might like to skim through the contents page and read a few portions to see if it fits with what you are looking for. The following titles and authors may be a good starting place for you: Loving Solutions by Gary Chapman; Passage to Intimacy : Key Concepts and Skills from the Pairs Program Which Has Helped Thousands of Couples Rekindle Their Love, by Lori H. Gordon and Jon Frandsen; Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, Susan L. Blumberg.