The best advice that I can give is that you must solidify your friendship with your partner. When you become the best of friends, a number of other positive benefits follow. You can become more securely attached, or connected, to your partner by developing a deeper friendship. To do that, spend more time with her doing something you both enjoy. Like dancing, for example. Also, regularly ask for updates on your her likes, dislikes, current stressors, and new interests, as people change over time. Of course you must also share your passions, expectations, feelings and desires with her. And never let this friendship slow down or take it for granted. In time, you will know and realize that you have formed a solid and unbreakable relationship.