Marriage counseling is available from a lot of different sources. Most churches and other houses of worship offer some couples counseling, and most hospitals and medical centers can help you find a marriage counselor as well. You can talk to your family doctor or other physician for a referral, or ask friends and family if they know of someone you might like. The important thing when choosing a marriage counselor is that you and your spouse both feel comfortable talking openly with him or her. That openness is essential for your success, because your counselor can’t help you with things they don’t know about.