Consider these questions and make note of your answers. · Why do you want marriage counseling? · Are you committed to the relationship? · How do you think marriage counseling could help? · What changes would you like to see in your marriage? · What are your biggest fears in marriage counseling? · What would success look like? · What are the main issues causing problems in your marriage? · How do you make things worse? · How does your partner make things worse? What are you willing to try, start doing, stop doing, or change in order to save the relationship?