LoveCoach said on
how long have you been in the relationship? How long has it been abusive? What exactly does that mean? Verbal, emotional, physical? Chances are, if things were good in the beginning, that there are some underlying issues that, once dealt with, the relationship can be stronger and better than ever before. Have you ever broken a bone? Medical science has proven that the bone is stronger in the place of the break after it heals than it was before the break. A relationship can be the same way-once the issues are dealt with and a new foundation is built, the passion, trust, intimacy, and love increase! I wish for you a life filled with Gratitude, Abundance, and Passion! <3
Sienna34 said on
If you want out of an abusive marriage, recognizing that your partner treats you inappropriately is a good start. If you have been physically inured in an abusive marriage, seek medical treatment as soon as possible. On the heels of the physical assessment, it is important to visit with a psychologist with a pronounced ability to work through the emotional facets of abuse. If you share children with the abuser, make sure they receive counseling so they may have an opportunity to explore feelings of fear, anger and resentment. As always. self-care is a must.