In the frenetic 21st century society, it may take a little work to prioritize a focus on the family. That said, a few steps could help. 1. Picture the future often, and imagine the steps you will need to take to make this future a priority. 2. Encourage your partner and friends to help hold you accountable to family scheduling. 3. Ask your spouse how he or she views the marriage. Listen intently and be willing to make some changes. 4. Create family rituals that draw everyone together for meals, conversations, and the like.