Guys are cheats!
Marriage is nothing like what they say in the movies.
And whether you like it or not, there's no "happily ever after" in the so called 'holy union'.
It's bascially a lot time wasted on planning and assuming your life away.
You want to buy a car, make babies, buy books, buy a TV, and all that she-bang but then the big real disappointment stares you right in the face - your guy is a cheat - and thats when you realize that all those hopes, dreams and aspirations were one big waste of time.
My husband cheated on me and I just found out.
I hate him but it's hurting too much.
What should I do? How do I come to terms with this?