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What to do after infedility? How can I make life better?

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lauramarie said on
Whether or not a marriage can be repaired rests upon a decision to grow by leveraging the hurt, as brutally painful as it is, and choosing to use it as a source of evolution.
happylife said on
Infidelty hurts, but reminding yourself of your personal worth and value can help you know that you didn't cause someone to cheat - that was a decision the other person made.
CHAVEZ said on
Remember that this isn't the end of your life. You can love again, it may just take some time.
STEVENS said on
Take up a hobby you've been wanting to, or travel somewhere you've been wanting to go. A change of scenery, or a new hobby to fill the hole left by the person who has left you, can be helpful in healing.
CAMPBELL said on
Do you wish to stay in the marriage? If yes, then know that you can save the marriage if the cheating partner has acknowledged his mistakes and wants to change it all. Go seek help of a professional counselor NOW.  There are many benefits of seeking marriage counseling
Luke23 said on
If you created the infidelity, you will need to work very hard at regaining your partner’s trust.  They have the right to feel the feelings they feel, and to distrust you for as long as it takes.  Have faith that by doing the right things your partner will come around again.  Only rekindle things with your partner if you are truly happy with them and remorseful about your behavior.  If there’s any chance it could happen again, make the choice to end the relationship to save your partner more pain in the future.   Either way, the two of you will want to start family therapy and assess the problems in your marriage.  The counselor can help the both of you work through personal struggles and communication problems, and help identify current feelings, he or she can provide tools to help you re-develop trust, and he or she can help you make decisions about whether to stay together.
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