Luke23 said on
If you created the infidelity, you will need to work very hard at regaining your partner’s trust. They have the right to feel the feelings they feel, and to distrust you for as long as it takes. Have faith that by doing the right things your partner will come around again. Only rekindle things with your partner if you are truly happy with them and remorseful about your behavior. If there’s any chance it could happen again, make the choice to end the relationship to save your partner more pain in the future. Either way, the two of you will want to start family therapy and assess the problems in your marriage. The counselor can help the both of you work through personal struggles and communication problems, and help identify current feelings, he or she can provide tools to help you re-develop trust, and he or she can help you make decisions about whether to stay together.