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How to deal with life after infedelity?

How to deal with life after infedelity?

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Marriage_com Answered:

Infidelity happens for different reasons; only you will know if you want to continue in the relationship if you’re the victim of a partner’s infidelity. Many people believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater”, but just as many argue this. Most who have engaged in extramarital affairs in otherwise happy marriages, have felt ashamed and remorseful for their behavior. Many even told their partner about the affair, and worked to repair the relationship. After something like this happens, the most important goal is re-establishing trust, where therapy is very necessary. Also, trust your instincts. If you find that you still can’t trust your partner, have high anxiety after a long period of time, or you just don’t think you can go on in the same way, ending the marriage may be the right thing.

Maitland Answered:

Seek counseling, and turn to God's unfailing and never changing love for you as his child. Seek to find comfort in the person of Jesus Christ and abide with Christ in your suffering.

Marden Answered:

If your husband or wife is unfaithful to you, it can make you feel worthless. You must remember that you are an individual created in the image of God, and worthy of love. You cannot believe the lies that may enter your head that tell you that you're "ugly" or "worthless" or "not worth love" - this is a lie and you must seek the truth about yourself.

Happylife Answered:

When infidelity occurs, first try to determine why it happened. If the relationship is able to be saved, counseling may be very beneficial in rebuilding trust and honesty.

Purplerain Answered:

It´s a hard time. You feel a lot of anger and sadness. It´s good if you distract yourself. See friends that cheer you up a little when you can´t stand the pain any longer. Discuss the reasons with your partner and decide if you want to stay with him/her. If so you might need some professional help.

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