Especially if it is your first marriage, you will likely be nervous and have lots of topics for consideration. What are your fears, innermost thoughts and worries? Make these into questions or topics you can bring to your counselor. Examples are: Will I be able to be faithful to my partner? Will she be able to stay faithful to me? What if our feelings change? What if our goals change? What if one of us falls ill? Can I still have time and freedom to spend with friends, and on activities I enjoy? How will we keep things fresh and exciting? What if one of us grows bored? How do we avoid fights, resentment, and negativity? How will we deal with adversity? Are we strong enough to support one another through difficulty and hardship?