Austin said on
You should definitely find out what debt he has, what tax benefits will you gain by marrying him? What other benefits? Will he be able to support you? How will you divide up the household chores? Does he have a criminal record? What’s his health history? Is there anything either one of us would NOT be willing to give up for marriage? Does he have a good job, and do you think he will be a good and reliable provider? Does he ever feel jealous or insecure? Ask your partner about his past relationships, too, is he still friends with his exes? Or are they cold and distant?- Staying friends with girls he used to date is a very good sign. Find out things like your partner’s health history, immunizations and family illness; find out whether he has any sort of criminal record, and ask him if there is anything he would not be willing sacrifice for the marriage.