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Christian said on
Saving a marriage can be a tough task, or an easy one; it all depends on the problems at hand and how you communicate. Each couple is unique, and every couple faces a unique set of challenges and circumstances in marriage. Talk with your partner; determine that you both want things to work out, and get your partner’s buy-in to put effort into saving your marriage. Tell each other what you each plan to contribute. Give your appearance more attention, like you did when you and your husband first dated. Then, go on a few dates together. Start over fresh. When you are spending quality time together, avoid those topics that cause arguments. Do only nice things for one another. Have sex.Compliment each other, appreciate each other. Laugh together. See a therapist or talk to a good family friend about differences or issues that you cannot resolve on your own. Communicate well, often, and without blaming.
Halbert said on
Some effective ways to save a marriage are to dig deep to find the core cause, figure out the ways you aren’t communicating effectively, make sure you are still making time to have fun together and rekindle your love through common interests, and really take the time and make the effort to truly listen to your partner with unconditional regard, attention, and nonjudgment. Be sure to ask, with your full heart behind it, what she or he is truly needing from you right now and what is missing. Then work to fill those needs. It can take real desire for an action of change.