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How can I stop an affair in my marriage?

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pacothetaco said on
If you're the one having the affair, distance yourself from the person who you're having the affair with. Reconnect with your spouse.

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You cannot stop an affair in the marriage. It is up to your partner (or you if you are the guilty party) to recognize that the affair will cause enormous heartbreak for all those connected with your family. If your spouse is cheating, you do have ownership in how you respond to the infidelity. Counseling, healthy nutrition, and exercise are simple things that can help you work through the anxiety associated with marital infidelity. Surrounding yourself with a cadre of supportive friends, relatives, and professionals is an important measure as well. Encourage your partner to talk about the infidelity. If he or she is open to conversation, marital healing is possible.
CARTER5 said on
Infidelity is intolerable for most if not all. Therefore, to stop an affair honestly take the decision to quit the affair. Having a half-baked idea about it never takes you there.
PHILLIPS said on
Everything takes time and stopping something immediately might not be easy although the situation demands. After you decide to quit an affair, make efforts to immediately reduce the time and effort spent towards that affair.
EVANS5 said on
Cut the affair in its initial stage. If you're sharing something intimate with the opposite sex, that is a clear sign to cut that short. This includes problems in the marriage to the other person of the opposite sex. This is a no-no.
TURNER said on
Remind yourself once again of the vows taken during marriage. Marriage is a responsibility and you need to be commited to it. Be aware of the most dangerous places where infidelity stems up including office and the internet. Have your limits there and you will be safe.
Hallward said on
Confront your spouse and call upon friends and loved ones who will help hold your spouse accountable. Ask your spouse to remove the circumstance and person that led him to cheat from his/her life. Seek reconciliation and counseling. You cannot control your spouse, but you can give them a chance to repent if you would like to save your marriage.
Hyman4 said on
Confront your spouse and seek professional counseling together as to how your marriage ended up in a place of infedelity. Talk openly about what led your spouse to be unfaithful to you, and work towards forgiveness and healing if you'd like to save your marriage.
SamRausch said on
Well having an affair is illegal, immoral and non-Christian. It breaks marriages easily. It is intolerable for anybody. Take an honest decision to stop this and if you are skeptical about taking a decision, this will never take effect.
ChariseCrouch said on
Nobody can stop something right away. This includes having affairs. Even though this is very bad to do, weaknesses are hard to overcome. After deciding to quit your affair, take small steps towards that goal and eventually let go of it.
Sometimes an extra marital affair can be a valuable wake up call to both partners, bringing them to a place of realization that their marriage is precious and needs to be cherished and protected. If there is remorse on the part of the one who had the affair, and forgiveness from the other spouse, then there is a good chance that the marriage will survive. The tendency to blame, and use the matter as “ammunition” to blackmail or manipulate the one who had the affair, cannot be tolerated. A fresh start needs to be made, and in most cases some professional marriage counseling would be advisable.
MerylLark said on
Nothing does it better than cutting something in the root. When you get the initial idea of getting close to someone, maintain distance. Nobody is perfect and being careful sometimes involve being distant from someone. Self-control cannot be always exercised. Stop sharing marriage problems to the opposite sex.
CleotildeGummer said on
Marriage is where you take vows to be with this ONE person. Try remembering that. It is a responsibility and a commitment. Infidelity crops in office, internet, and other places where you might least expect it. Have your boundaries so much so you can control anything that comes over it.
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jusneed said on
If Infidelity in your Marriage . It will ruin your marriage. TRUST you lose.
Aakifa said on
If you want to solve this problem, just check out the limitations or causes in your relationship. Just talk to your partner in a polite way and make a list of things which become the reason of an affair. Work on that limitation and start improving.
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