Who is the workhorse of the family? Will both of you work together or apart? If one is working, is the other ok with being the homemaker? If there are differences in who is working, how are you solving it?
Are we going to go to bed angry with each other? Will we solve conflicts before we sleep? Are we setting a standard to solve conflicts before dusk? If not what is the timeline for a conflict? Let this be a realistic timeline that will be adhered to.
Do you have debt that you will be working to pay off together? If you do have debt, what is your plan for paying off your loans? Debt can be a burden, and it is important to discuss your plan for paying this off before your finances are merged.
How much do you value fitness in your individual lives? Are you combining a ftiness routine together? Do you have health issues and if so what are they? What kind of diet have you followed and will you follow? Are you ready to make healthier choices if one is already following them?