SCOTT34 said on
Am I willing to make decisions with two people in mind rather than making decisions only for myself? People who cannot answer the question with a "yes" should not get married. A good marriage will make you happy, but happiness is not the goal of marriage. The goal of marriage is helping one another realize their God-given potential and bulding a life together that benefits the good of all. Marriage is the most basic way to build community, and you cannot build your marriage upon your own selfish wants and needs - your marriage will crumble.