Can a marriage with mental health issues and some abusive tendencies be saved?
My spouse and I have been married 13 years he is medicated bipolar schizoeffective and hypersexual.
When things are good they are ok.
But when things are bad they get very bad he has homicidal feelings towards me etc.
is there help?
Simply put, no! This is not a safe situation to be in.
Saying your husband can end up with homicidal feelings toward you is extremely dangerous, so let me start straight off the bat by saying if he ever hurts you or you feel threatened, please call a trusted family or friend, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit https://www.thehotline.org/ the chat or text with someone ASAP.
In the meantime, I suggest you remove yourself from the home and get your husband to visit his doctor and see if there's any medication he can take to balance out his mental disorder and give him more stability in his life.
Here’s some more information that I highly suggest you read about what to do if you are experiencing abuse and need help .