How to make divorce easier?
I'm having the hardest time dealing with my divorce which is going to take place, inevitably now.
My husband and I were married for only 2 years but things just stopped working for us.
For a while, the marriage was good and strong.
We loved each other; at least that's what I thought.
But in time things started to change, we just drifted apart.
And now he has made it very clear that things won't work out and there is no point in even trying.
I did my best to encourage him to really work on our marriage but he does not even want to try.
And it breaks my heart to go through this as I really wish things to get better.
But my friends and lawyer tell me its all hopeless and won't save anything.
I just want to know how I can make this easier on myself! I want to get past this phase and make the divorce as clean and easy as I can! -Anna
I can share with you a few things I have learnt from my life. First, you do not always get what you want. So, stop trying if your husband doesn't want to live with you. Love yourself and you will see some drastic changes in your life. Self-preservation, you might have heard this term before and it is exactly what you need to do. You need to focus on yourself, your dreams, your emotions, and your passion. If you don't have any dream - which is highly improbably - let yourself see a new dream. If you don't have any passion, do the most unpredictable things you might do ever. Be materialistic for some time and you will notice improvement in yourself as a human being. Do not worry about the world and focus on yourself until you pass this face of your life. You will come out a better person, I assure you.