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Am I Overreacting?

Me and my husband have been together 7 years, married for 3 years.
During our time dating, I found out that he was seeking escorts for sexual relations.
After some time, I forgave him, but never forgot.
Recently, I found out that he was looking for escorts again.
I've gone through so much through our dating and marriage and this latest incident has me at the end of my rope.
I can no longer deal with it nor do I want to.
I've been unhappy for a while and now this has sealed the deal.
I just wanted to know, am I overreacting? P S.
I've tried counseling, he said he doesn't need it, he's happy, I'm the one that has a problem with him.
I've sat him down several times to discuss my feelings.
He may do right for a little while but then it always goes back to the nonsense.
Thank you for the positive feedback!

1 Answers

xena16 Answered:

If you are married he is cheating on you. In a marriage is between two people who love each other. NO CHEATING is not suppose to be in a Happy Marriage. If you have no children then leave. Your not happy then leave if you can for your well being. i am in a toxix marriage now. i brought it to his attention and he denide it when I asked him if he had another cell? HE said NO. Every night he goes in to his drawer and gets his cell(that he lied about) He takes it in our bedroom and has cell sex all night. i am having a anxiety attack which is giving me pain in my stomach.. This happened before and I threw him out. i think he knows that I know and just dont care he is a sex addict. I want to leave but do not have a lot of money to leave, plus I have a dog. I have a breakdown when I go to bed at night because he does that in front of me while I am in bed. I think I am going to give him my letter. or rewrite it. It gets better. We go to therapy together. every Monday. if I bring it to his attention then he will say I am having hallucinations????? xena16

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