She’s too fat!
Your wife has lost some motivation in herself. As a woman, when your child are that old you cannot use them as your excuse to pack on the extra pounds. I have four children and made the choice to change after my husband loss interest in my sexually. He explained to me why he didn’t feel comfortable being romantically involved with me. It hurt more hearing the truth than wondering in speculation, why my husband would only sleep with me; when he was drunk. It probably wasn’t the best conversation our marriage has endured but it was the first hardest conversation our marriage endured.
Now, most of all husbands, please read this carefully. When your wife starts to run a house and take care of the children and do all the other things that are on her shoulder, she hardly has time for herself, don't complain or nag her. Be understanding, and do not be harsh with her. God tells you all that! If you walked a mile in your wife's shoes, you would understand what the road looks like! 8/26/14