Husband doesn't seem to care about sex
I have been married for 9 years, almost 10.
Of those years, 6 we have been having problems with sex.
He never wants it.
I've tried different times of day, different lingerie and so on.
I've tried telling him how it makes me feel when he rejects me constantly.
I feel like i might as well be talking to a brick wall.
I've even just offered oral sex with the understanding i didnt expect anything in return (not that he would anyways bc he won't do that to me).
It has gotten to the point before where i have literally been so frustrated i have screamed and thrown things a time or two hoping to get some kind of response from him and 1/2 the time i get nothing and the other 1/2 i might get an im sorry.
Ive begged pleaded and cried asking him to talk to me about this problem, so we can fix it and i get nowhere.
I don't want to think that its over, but i dont think theres any other choice at this point.
Any suggestions or advice? What should i do? What would you think? What would you do?