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Should I be worried that my huaband watches porn?

I confronted my husband about a year ago as I had discovered he was watching porn frequently.
He said he had always watched it, but I guess he was embarassed I found out.
It stopped for a few months.
Since April I have found that he watches it 1-2 times a week.
I would not be as concerned if our sex life was good.
It is not.
His idea of foreplay is "hey babe, I"'m hard.
" Sex is very vanilla, no foreplay, he basically lays there.
We have talked about the infrequency of our sexual encounters.
He blames an injury he had decades before I met him for not being able to get aroused easy.
Seems the porn does the trick for him though.
I do not want to embarass him again, but I am feeling very insecure and depressed when it comes to our lack of intimacy.
What do I do?

1 Answers

Steph77 Answered:

Over the past few years my wife and I have been texting a lot just day to day stuff. One time when i was away for the night and we couldnt be together we each had a drink or two and our texting turned into sexting. We said things to each other that we were too embarassed or shy to say face to face. Things each of us enjoys in bed with each other and things we want to try. It really led to us being more open about our sexual needs and made us way more comfortable talking about it face to face. Might be a start for you. Counseling is always a good thing if you can both agree to give it a chance amd go.

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