I've been married for just over a year and ours has just gone. It's the other way around for me he's not interested at all and sees it as a chore, wants it just done with and just does it basically to shut me up because i'm in the mood. It absolutely kills me as that is how i feel i connect with him as we have so many other issues in our life this seems to be the only thing that's not tained bgy problems but now is. We've got to the point now because there's just no connection in the bedroom it just doesn't seem to work between us. Are you intimate otherwise as in kissing, holding hands etc? Hvae you had an open and honest conversation about what the issue is? Tried a romantic break to get the spark going again?