Below is the question!
I have been with my man whos 43 for over 3 years.
We have GREAT AMAZING sex! He still looks at porn/woman on tumbler/etc.
most likely every day since we've been together.
I rarely ever watch porn cause it sucks! Recently we will be in the same room together both on our phones or me on my computer just dinking around and ill notice him on Tumblr searching through sex/woman masturbating/just naked woman in general gifs or videos or whatever! It actually hurts my feeling cause i don't do that kind of stuff (check out other men) to him! And we have AMAZING SEX at least 4-5 times a week! for the last 3 years! So my question is why does he feel the need to CONSTANTLY do this? And why does it irritate me so much?
women and men are different. watching porn is jot associated with his love for his mate but rather a recreational activity like video games. if you feel this strongly tell him to choose you or porn not both. keep in mind that you will probably never be able to find a good partner that doesn't view porn at least occasionally.
it is quite normal for guys to view porn often in my experience. it is just entertaining or to search for new things to try with girls. have you told him you get irritated when you see him cybering porn with a perfectly fine girlfriend available to him to see naked or doing anything you want? perhaps he will hide it from you in the future if you discuss with him. i suggest you just ignore this normal activity.