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I have been with my man whos 43 for over 3 years.
We have GREAT AMAZING sex! He still looks at porn/woman on tumbler/etc.
most likely every day since we've been together.
I rarely ever watch porn cause it sucks! Recently we will be in the same room together both on our phones or me on my computer just dinking around and ill notice him on Tumblr searching through sex/woman masturbating/just naked woman in general gifs or videos or whatever! It actually hurts my feeling cause i don't do that kind of stuff (check out other men) to him! And we have AMAZING SEX at least 4-5 times a week! for the last 3 years! So my question is why does he feel the need to CONSTANTLY do this? And why does it irritate me so much?

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bunnyhabit Answered:

good luck to you, sounds like your only concerns is your feelings not any consideration of his desires. surprised you are still in this relationship after three years of fighting over this trivial matter. suggest that you break up with him and find someone who opposes porn as much as you do.

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Alihard
Replied on Sep 03, 2020

Just for the sake of argument, and because I am sincerely trying to understand and accept this, so basically what I got from what you said about his desires, tells me he desires other women?

bunnyhabit Answered:

women and men are different. watching porn is jot associated with his love for his mate but rather a recreational activity like video games. if you feel this strongly tell him to choose you or porn not both. keep in mind that you will probably never be able to find a good partner that doesn't view porn at least occasionally.

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Alihard
Replied on Sep 03, 2020

I do realize this but every day??

bunnyhabit Answered:

it is quite normal for guys to view porn often in my experience. it is just entertaining or to search for new things to try with girls. have you told him you get irritated when you see him cybering porn with a perfectly fine girlfriend available to him to see naked or doing anything you want? perhaps he will hide it from you in the future if you discuss with him. i suggest you just ignore this normal activity.

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Alihard
Replied on Oct 07, 2018

Yes we have discussed this numerous times throughout 3 years! I am also the girl that  will do ANYTHING in the sack to please him and he most def knows this!! At first the issue was porn sites,  and this time around he has discovered and created an account on Tumblr.
Maybe it irritates me because I wouldnt/dont/never have felt the need or urge to view other men because i am sexually satisfied with him? So i feel that if he was also with me then he wouldnt' feel the need to do this?? Especially in the same room as me trying to be descreet about it?!

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Alihard
Replied on Sep 03, 2020

Honestly, i am really getting sick of hearing people say "it's normal, deal with it" not you in particular but there has to be another option.

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