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Pornographic material

I just found out a couple of days ago that my husband has been exchanging pornographic pictures and videos with some girls and he engages in dirty talk as well with them. I felt so disgusted and cheated because on numerous occasions he's denied me sex.

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n.marriage said on
Interestingly, I just found an article that deals with tthe issue of watching porn. Pls read this one - http://marriage.about.com/od/pornography/qt/What-To-Do-When-Your-Husband-Wo-Not-Stop-Watching-Pornography.htm

However, your problem is different. He's not just into porn stuff but engaging in dirty rubbish with random girls. Its clearly a sign that he is cheating on you...and does not behave like a responsible man who is in a committed relationship. The fact that he denied you sex could be that he does not want to do it with you or has his own concerns. Ask him directly what the problem is ... its easy for men to drift off,  they probably just want to experience the excitement of being with other women after a point - m not saying this is the case with all men, but it does happen in many cases. He may not even view is as cheating ... he probably just wanted that change and went for it...m just saying - try to understand him. visit a councelor before taking any decisions about your marriage.
g said on
God bless and take care! 
Graham said on
This can be a grave idea in your husband's mind. I think you guys need to talk, councelling will surely help. Somehow, you need to know what is he thinking and to what gravity is his thoughts inclined towards such things. I am pretty sure this problem can be solved.

Sometimes, old men have this paradoxical idea to have sex or share intimacy with nymphets. I think your husband might be suffering from this idea. It is still not a disease and any idea can be thrown out of mind.

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manessharmony said on
Hey well if he has a porn problem it can or will lead to some big things. He should get some kind of help, counseling. So it can, will lead to big things in ur marriage if he dont stop. Porn is a hard addiction getting rid of. So u guys need to talk it out and see where it goes.
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