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​I'm attracted to my sister-in-law.

My sister-in-law is currently living with us for two months now and it seems like I have developed feelings for her.
She, on the other hand, has a foreign boyfriend and doesn’t have any idea about me being attracted to her.
Her older sister, who is my wife, is busy on her work.
She travels a lot and seldom comes home.
My wife’s younger sister and I are the only ones left at home most of the time.
I don’t know why I have developed feelings for her.
Maybe because she resembles her older sister so much or I’m just really attracted to her.
I don’t know what has gotten into me to feel this way.

1 Answers

Roeshell Answered:

Hey,

It's a tricky situation and really a discomforting one.

This should not happen to you as she is your sister-in-law. When the word SISTER comes in, you must understand the meaning of it fully. I understand you are a married soul and just because your wife is a busy woman and keeps visiting different places, it doesn't mean you delve into thoughts of ditching her in her absence.

 You must control any further, possible damage. One wrong step could make you compromise on many things and eventually can hamper your life, social life, work life and primarily your respect. 

Do not break/breach the trust that your wife has placed in you, and stop before you end up spoiling the lives of everyone involved.

Maybe it's happening because your wife is not around. If she were there living with you all day, this scenario would not have occurred. You need to control yourself; control your feelings and wrong intentions.

To avoid getting into these thoughts, you must avoid staying around her. Go for a walk or invest your time in something interesting. Engage in telephonic conversations with your wife. 

However, in near future, if you feel like this isn't working then do speak with a counselor. 

Good Luck!

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