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I'm hurting her and she deserves to know.

Before I met my girlfriend, I have been seeing a woman who is very ideal for me.
She is very fun to talk with.
We share the same interest--- favorite books, food and music.
Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had.
We have been chatting for two years and ended it that way.
Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend.
She’s sweet, caring and loving too but we don’t share the same interest at all.
Well… except for the food.
We both are into a foreign taste.
I can’t help but think about the previous woman everytime we are together.
Sometimes, I even feel bad that we ended the way I never expected.
I thought I have forgotten about her but I guess not.
My girlfriend, who doesn’t have the slightest idea about the previous woman, deserves to know about this, so I’m gonna tell her.
 

1 Answers

Roeshell Answered:

Hey,

I understand your concern.

See, it solely depends on you whether you want to disclose about it or not.

If you think your present girlfriend is comfortable enough to understand your situation, you should speak to her.

But if you are doubtful, you should choose another way to initiate a conversation as such.

But apart from this, self-control can certainly help you overcome such thoughts. If you are in real love with your present girlfriend, you must focus on her rather the one who has left you years ago. Concentrate on the present and future more.

If you still feel confused, you can consult a counselor to get a experienced advice. Or, you can approach online counselors to get an unbiased advice.

I have collected a link that can help you prepare mentally about how to handle this situation.

https://www.marriage.com/advice/counseling/relationships-are-hard-but-counseling-can-help/

Good Luck!

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