Is Our Marriage Repairable?
I am a closed-minded person my spouse is an open-minded person (he used to be a swinger).
He has mentioned a few times that he want to have sex with another married couple with me.
But that just raises red flags in my mind.
He is constantly looking at other attractive women in front of me.
We fight a lot (sometimes physical).
He looks at porn everyday.
And I am very insecure about my appearance.
But he says he loves me and that he would never cheat on me.
But will this Marriage work out or is it already too late?
I have to say, things aren't looking good. If your hubby used to have open relationships and is now looking at porn daily, checking out other women, and trying to suggest swinging with you, things are going downhill fast.
There's an article I think you might like to read. It's all about how to fix your marriage before it's too late. There are 4 tips listed in it that I think may be of interest to you.
That being said, I think you need to put your foot down and tell him that his suggestions (and behaviors) make you feel disrespected and worried about the future of your relationship. If he can't accept that, then I would personally walk out on that relationship because he clearly wouldn't have your best interest at heart.