I want to save my marriage
Me and my wife have been married for 3 years.
Since our marriage we have been rocky.
There is no doubt I have made plenty of mistakes and that a lot of her arguments are valid.
But my problems lies with every time I try and make an improvement on my weaknesses I will fall short at one thing and suddenly I don't do anything right.
This has been a pattern and now its even worse.
I've always had an ability to look past the issue and show affection .
Nothing is more important to me then letting her know I love her because you never know how short life is.
So my current situation is I can't do anything or ask anything without her seeming or being physically annoyed by it.
She constantly reminds me of my failures every time I try and ask her why she can't talk to me without attitude.
I get her frustration but every move every conversation I do back fires on me.
The small actions I make don't get recognition and every time I try and get traction through talking I'm turned into the enemy becUse I do talk about my issues with how she is acting.
I give every ounce of effort to be compassionate and stay away from blame.
Every time I can I complement on her looks tell her I love her, I always feel I'm in a shadow of failures and I'm not seen for what I truly am or want to be.
Its hard to stay commuted to are problems and every time I try instead of good job or give advice I get a it won't last, its not the way you do it.
When I've told her I would like a little support every now and then to know if I'm doing things right according to her.
She responds with are you a dog or I'm not your mother.
I'm lost and drained.
I love her so much we have brief moments where sky's clear buts its just one mistake and its everything that had happened in the 3 years falls right back in my lap.
Then its back to the climb.
I do my best to not let her attiude effect me and be the adult and get things done regardless.
Apparently I'm weak and I find my self esteem low and can't keep a foothold on what I need to do to start things going right.
I want the support of my wife, I want her to stay positive, keep faith in me, understand my difficulties, and a appeal to my ego a little to keep me interested in what is right.
Any advice would be appreciated thank you.