Question

I prepared well for that day, but my fiance's son is making me feel so unwelcome. I did what that marriage tours had suggested on meeting one’s fiance's family member, but it didn’t work so good. I know I did well on her parents but the problem is the kid. It seems like he doesn’t like me. I tried my best to look good in his front but to no avail--he just sneered at me. Wedding is happening in two weeks now and I need to win that kid’s heart first. What should I do?

Answer 1

It is important to understand that rushing into pleasing anyone is only going to make things more complicated. Give this new equation some time, and subsequently, you will be able to build a healthy rapport with the kid. Don't meddle in the kids' life trying to overhaul his lifestyle, tread with caution. Let things fall into place organically. Meanwhile cut the boy some slack, knowing he is insecure and vulnerable.